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Dear~ its your birthday today!! you are doing your project now bah.. Ceyi shld feel happy that she has such a hardworking project group member. doing project during birthday..
hmm... dont know why u today like sad sad de, because of project? older by 1 year old? cannot act cute? more responsibility? You thinking too much le! must stay happy ah! i will always be here/there to share any trouble with you de.. just tell me ok? Once again,

HaPPY 22nD BiRTHDAY!!! All ur wishes will comes true! love you. Muackz~
Wx-

Happy Birthday Dear!

by Elvina on 10:44 PM

Dear~ its your birthday today!! you are doing your project now bah.. Ceyi shld feel happy that she has such a hardworking project group me...

Delicious birthday cake made from Ceyi. Blueberry cheesecake! A very delicious cake. Yummy Yummy.

Dear's tiramisu one is also very nice. 2 bakers haha. Thanks Ceyi for the cake. I love the taste a lot. Especially the biscuit at the bottom!!

Yes! My cake! Holding my cake! Taking photo with my cake! Ceyi asked me if need candle to blow annot i said dun need. But is she going to sing for me? Who is going to sing for me? Sing by myself is so lonely. A lot of people sing for me i also feel paisei (just like my 21st birthday). But anyway, i enjoyed every birthdays a lot ^^ Love you people !!

by Elvina on 9:24 PM

Delicious birthday cake made from Ceyi. Blueberry cheesecake! A very delicious cake. Yummy Yummy. Dear's tiramisu one is also very nice....

Another post for today...
Dear arh~~ i know its very tiring for you to study now in the airport, where aircon is strong, where tempted by food or disturbed by people around you. But i know you can concentrate on ur studies. Otherwise you wouldn't be studying now. I know you can do it and chose to do for yourself and us. Persevere on. You have my support, and always have my support. Just few more days and your hard-work will be paid off. Believe in yourself that you can do well. 加油加油!! 你行的！Muackz :)

by Elvina on 1:48 AM

Another post for today... Dear arh~~ i know its very tiring for you to study now in the airport, where aircon is strong, where tempted by f...

Happy 2nd week anniversary!! So fast one , as days gone by. Two days ago, Sijie brought me to eat bak kut teh at Queenstown. We met early in the morning at 12pm but when we reached there, the shop we wanted to eat is not open. Damned! Im so sui, every time go at the wrong time. In late afternoon, we watched Harry Potter movie. An exciting, awesome movie. Action pack and full of colours and sparks. The graphics effect has definitely improved over the years! And it showed the last of the last of Harry Potter.
And just few hours before.. my babes met me up to celebrate + catching up time with me! We never failed to meet up for each other birthdays. Even Adeline took leave especially for this day. Im so happy because Adeline is the one who is now busier than any of us now. She needed to earn for her expenses when school reopens. Hope everything is doing well for her. As for Lesley, her old admirer is also catching up time with her, flirting through sms. Her market value is there.. still rising :x Lastly, Jasmine is 'free' now but not that free either. Her school is starting soon and she has to bid for her module. Wish her all the best in bidding the module with Colin so they can end up the same class together ^^. Wonder how they will concentrate in class haha. We had a simple dinner at Timbre @ the Art House. I loved going there because of the nice scenery and cooling breeze.

My weirdest birthday card i received from my babes. Must be hand-picked by Jasmine. She may look innocent but she is a very cheeky girl :P But because its weird and interesting, i like it a lot :)

I wonder why the photo still tilted despite i saved it in the horizontal direction in my folder. But anyway, even idiots can make it out words of 'Timbre'. So i guessed no matter how i tilt it you guys can always read it somehow. And yes! We had our dinner at Timbre! Look at the foods we have:

The buffalo wings at timbre! A worth to die for dish.. Delicious yet, spicy yet sweet and crispy!

My drink! Mocktail: Virgin Sakura. With lychee on the top. Taste sweet and still sweet smelling. Love it too!

The duck pizzia. Another signature dish from timbre. Almost every table is occupied by this particular dish. Cripsy toppings and sweet sauce. Yet not my favourite because of the duck's smell.

Lesley ordered this drink.. Lemme think.. its called xx sunrise? I can't remember the name of the drink. I only remember it tastes nice. However, it doesn't not make a huge impression in me.

Hawaiian pizza!! One of the all-time favorite pizza on my list. And i realised something. I neglected taking Adeline's drink. All i could remember was that she was drinking an alcoholic drink known as Cosmopolitan. We hcatted all the way through. A fun day with my babes of course! All of us were full . But i still wanted to have ice cream at :

And we had :

ICE CREAM!

After satisfying our needs for desserts, we headed home. Dear came fetching me from school just now. Thanks Dear :D And now he is studying his paper somewhere in airport. Will he sleep there? Just like a stranded commuter who always did that when they got ditched by the air plane.. Well, he is not alone ^^

Lastly, my present from my babes!

Pretty isn't it? I loved at the moment i saw the design and the blue gem. So sparkling.. The design is elegance and simple. Not too fanciful nor complicated. Brings out my personality as well. Thanks babes! For choosing such a beautiful pendent for me ^^ *Happy*

My BFFs. Been 9 years and counting ^^.

by Elvina on 1:35 AM

Happy 2nd week anniversary!! So fast one , as days gone by. Two days ago, Sijie brought me to eat bak kut teh at Queenstown. We met early in...

When a lady is more mature than her man.... How to make the relationship works?
''Patience is particularly important in this relationship. Learn to adopt a liberal and open mindset and see what you can learn from each other. For a relationship like this to last, the women needs to be patient with the man's immaturity while the man should be eager enough ti learn and have the desire to grow while being appreciative of the woman's efforts. In this case, lady need to be willing to take up the bigger responsibilities in the relationship until your man matures and develops his own leadership skills. Being patient is also important especially when he isn't ready to go down on one knee and settle down yet. Support and encourage him in the things he wants to do in life and give him space to grow up, only then you will be able to tell if he's the right man.

However, if both has the same maturity level, its a good news! Means that both of you understand the importance of shared responsibility in the relationship and have probably drawn up mutual goals to work towards. While you might not share the same beliefs, when two equally mature people face problems and conflicts, both of you are rational and level-headed enough to resolve conflicts by reasoning it out to one another. But such relationship can face the problem of overly mundane and there's a higher risk of both parties feeling stifled by the seeming stability of the relationship. How to make it works?

It's vital to inject some excitement by making a conscious effort to shake things up and keep life refreshing by letting your inner children run loose from time to time. Remind each other that there is nothing wrong with behave irrationally or pursuing impractical passions once a while. If life has become a monotonous routine, surprise each other by exploring new date places and picking up a new hobby together. Also, not to forget to give each other ample personal space when needed and learn to do things for yourself so that you wouldn't feel shackled by the stability of the relationship.

by Elvina on 1:43 AM

When a lady is more mature than her man.... How to make the relationship works? ''Patience is particularly important in this relati...

It was a great and enjoyable day with dear yesterday! He is so sweet, gave me surprises from morning till night o.O I had lesson at 12pm and he was here to send me to school. Before entering his car, he told me to close my eyes while he carefully guided me to the car seat. I was jus wondering what was he going to do? But the sound of the lighter just gave him away haha. He made the birthday cake for me!!

See the cake he had done for. Tiramisu!! My fave haha. The first time ever hand made cake for me and his first time attempt on baking a cake. So touched... Thanks dear. Best cake i received for the past 22 years :) Taste nice too.. Then after keeping the cake in my fridge, off he sent me to school! Clashing lectures with me is sweet. However, he had been playing his iphone in my lectures, distracting me all the while. tempting me to see the fishes he caught -.- But its alright, im still listening to lecture :X

Then evening came...

I bathed, dressed up, putting on necessary colours on my face, blow my hair, and added a little scent to my neck. Getting ready for the dinner at Carousal. Seems like i had overly put too much powder on my face. Lucky it the photos turned out to be nice. Otherwise i would be looking like those wang yang people on stage. As for dear, he wore black. So handsome! And so different from his either boy-ish or casual attire. So am i -.- Holding flowers in his hands, he gave it to me at my lift. So sweet! Feels like a formal date :X But this is what which made my day so special... ...

Taking photos with dear... *shy* I cheated. Cover my face with sunflower

Finally after turing around carparks and more carparks, we finally settled at Shaw Tower. Slowly walked down to Carousal at DFS building in my heels. Dear said i've grown taller and he is not used to it. Dear, one day u will! I like heels. You had better prayed that i won't wear heels which made me taller than you :X I sounded so threatening. But never mind arh. A bit taller won't harm ? :x

Alright... Food at Carousal is just so damned nice! So delicious. Ranging from japanese food to indian cuisine, chinese cook food to seafoods, desserts consisting ice cream, cakes, mousse, tarts, fruits, last but not least fondue! A wide range of variety. But the price is of course .. ahem... wah! O.O Dear said its still ok.. i wonder what is not ok to him -.- Total bill is $1xx.xx . X_X But really, good ratings for this buffet restaurant! So happy happy! Happy for the full day. Can't stop smiling. Like idiot like that :x Alrigt, let me post some foodies now~

See the food we ate, enormous right! Dear ate until to the brim of his throat. On the verge of vomiting. Poor dear, hope he learnt his lesson of the meaning of buffet :( Luckily, all was well again after 1/2 hrs of rest ^^

And before i reached home, dear gave me another surprise!

His hand made scrapbook for me :) The last surprise of the day. Dear has really put in a lot of efforts for a day like this. I really appreciate your efforts and the love u put in for me. Love you dear, muacks :) Happy one week anniversary too! Woo~~

Some random pics!

by Elvina on 2:44 PM

It was a great and enjoyable day with dear yesterday! He is so sweet, gave me surprises from morning till night o.O I had lesson at 12pm and...

I am awaiting a big big day tomorrow! Dear has said to celebrate my birthday for me tomorrow. Yet he kept so secretive about the restaurant buffet from me. He hinted me town area, around orchard. Orchard is so big. I really don't know where. However, i am having lessons tomorrow from 12pm to 3pm for my marketing lectures. and him, should be most probably clashing my lecture with me. For the past 2 days, he had been working midnight shift and yet he still insisted to send me to and fro school. Clashing lectures with me as possible. And worst, he has to study for his upcoming exams. He hadn't get enough sleep for these days. Im so afraid that tiredness is eating him up. Is his body able to take the tiredness? He also sent Ceyi and Sharon home after school ended. Im so heartache.. seeing him in such a state because of me. All i just want to be him to be happy with me..without feeling tired and hope im doing my job well. Yup, my dear is sleeping right now.. let's not disturb him.. shhhh...

by Elvina on 9:35 PM

I am awaiting a big big day tomorrow! Dear has said to celebrate my birthday for me tomorrow. Yet he kept so secretive about the restaurant ...

School started yesterday and it was a heavy morning monday! Heavy as in terms of my mood.. dragging my self to school. And today! I realise school had changed a lot. The toilets are woo-hoo!! So high class! Like ION toilets! With automatic tap and more cubicles! I thought i had entered into a shopping mall o.O Lessons today ended rather early. Me and ceyi went shopping to orchard. Its since a long time since i go shopping apart from yesterday :X In 2 days, i bought 2 dresses. So sinful! Should have stopped myself from doing so. And also, ceyi bought me eyeshadow as my present for my birthday ^^ Thanks ceyi!! Love that colour a lot haha.

This photo taken from marina barrage. So pretty! So nice! Blissful and sweet :P Yup.. and officially the start of our relationship... ... Muackz!

by Elvina on 12:42 AM

School started yesterday and it was a heavy morning monday! Heavy as in terms of my mood.. dragging my self to school. And today! I realise ...

Life is so unpredictable. Things can just befall on anyone else. The good and bad.. Just so hard to see what's coming for us. Moments ago, my sis messaged me to tell me that korkor has passed away. Seriously, i had tried my best in taking care of him. Taking up a bit of my time of sleep to pat him and give him treats. Showering love that he deserved. Few days ago, i even heard from the radio that 'Pets may not be everything to us, but to them, we are their everything.' Think about it, they can't wash their toilet without us, they cant clean their butt without us, they can't play themselves without us, they can't do everything without US! Humans learn lessons from the hard way. Adopting pet is not as easy as it seems, not just giving them shelter and food that's all, it something that is invisible that which made them feel attached to us, and the willingness of us to take good care of them. In the past, i wanted a pet. But now, as im older, i feel that i must not adopt them when i can't even take care of myself. Am i able to provide everything that they need? Just hope that out there, before adopting any form of pets, please ask yourself if you are capable in giving ur time and attention to your little ones.
Though these 2 little ones were not adopted by me, i tried my best in giving them the best. Hope they are passing on right now.
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Today is official day of us being together :) 09-07-2011. I like this date ^^ In the morning, we met up with my fyp preps for bak kut teh at clark quey ^^ My god, the soup is so delicious the it can be refilled! Where on earth is there such a good thing right. I don't really believe until i went today. Delicious delicious!! Bought lollipop and sticky sweets from there again ^^ So colourful those sticky sweet :P Haha. After that, fetch wei teck to driving lesson at ubi. Stalk him when he was about to end his driving lesson. So funny, we were like trying to track him down. :x But its ok, i believed he would want us to anyway :x Angela met us at marine parade after her facial. We had ice cream at scoops! After that, we went to marina barrage as i suggested! What a beautiful place to go during evening. Perhaps its the sunny and windy whether which made our day perfect! Going to marina barrage is the best day of my life this year! I had been wanting to go so badly but he made it possible for me to go. My virgin trip :x Lol. There were so many big and beautiful kites up there in the sky, with families and friends picnic-ing, children running around smiling, laughing. All these are just good enough to make my mood lift up :) This feeling is contagious. Im just enjoying the mood and ambience there! Best of all, we took some photos, all thanks to wei teck professional camera he brought. It's been a long time since we fyp took photos. After wei teck's birthday? Yup, after his birthday. We as FYP, share a special bond and relationship. Although we don't meet up as often, none of us really changed much! There is almost nothing that we can't talk about! Treasure you guys a lot! ^^ Night activities as follows: Eat dinner at liang court and bowling at mount faber. Such activities will not change ba haha.
But today, at 11.59pm, after sending Angela home, life is not the same anymore. Just a simple question, so simple.. has kept me smiling throughout the night. I have no regrets in making this decision. To have you in my life, is a major step for me to move on. Yet im not afraid at all now.. because i have you. I've always thought that tears are only meant for sadness until just now. I never know tears can be a beautiful one until you showed me... You meant a lot to me, love you :) Our stories will begin from this moment on... ... *muackz

by Elvina on 3:08 AM

Life is so unpredictable. Things can just befall on anyone else. The good and bad.. Just so hard to see what's coming for us. Moments ag...

Im so happy happy ^^ I had finally finished my 1.5 months of work in departmental stores!! And yesterday, I went to watch transformers: dark of the moon after my work at 8.30pm. Ah Boy had bought the tickets on Saturday when i asked him to. He got very good seating from The Cathay Picturehouse at 9.15pm. The transformers movie is 152 minutes, equivalent to 2.5 hours! We watched until our butt and back pain -.- I was tired though, but the action-packed movie just kept me hooked on, so exciting, the image, the sound system are just not to be missed! The movie ended at 11.50pm. It was late, ah boy sent me home. As it was sunday, it was difficult to catch a cab so we just walked down to Selegie to wait for a cab. At my void deck, i gave him as what i had promised to give him to. A reasonable farewell gift. It was all that needed to say farewell and good-bye to a 有缘无份 relationship...
And today, i embraced a new day of my life.. welcoming surprises and more surprises ^^ We got our water bottles! I got my purple and he got his red one! I loved mine a lots, Thanks playmate ^^ After which we went to eat raman in one of the shop at Novena. Yummy :P And in the afternoon, we washed his red turbo turtle together ^^ It was so dirty :X In my life i had never washed a car before and don't know how to go about doing it. Ok lah, i was just following instructions whole time :X He told me vacuum i vacuum. He tell me to fill pail with water i do so too. Then take sponge scrub scrub scrub. Can't imagine if the car is taller than me, maybe i should just use a stool if im not tall enough to reach :S After all that scrubbing, we just spam water on the red turbo turtle :X So clean after that! Haha. So much difference O.O And proud of it!
That's for afternoon, evening time he skipped lesson :X Ok, naughty right! But never mind, because he skipped his lesson we had chance to enter mbs. Happy Birthday to his elder brother! We went there empty-handed, so paisei. Just a handshake wish. The hotel room is just so pretty, with bath tub! So cool! When will i have the chance to soak in the bath tub lol. But anyway, the scenery at the top of mbs is so pretty that the images are still imprinted in my mind. There's swimming pool too! Cool Cool!! Just loving it! Then, we walked all the way back to marina square again.. sending me home.. Life is getting back to where i am again. So happy!! ^^

by Elvina on 12:34 AM

Im so happy happy ^^ I had finally finished my 1.5 months of work in departmental stores!! And yesterday, I went to watch transformers: dark...

离开旧爱, 像坐慢车, 看透撤了心就会是晴朗的
没人能把谁的幸福没收, 你发誓你会活的有笑容
你自信时候真的美多了

by Elvina on 1:21 AM

离开旧爱, 像坐慢车, 看透撤了心就会是晴朗的没人能把谁的幸福没收, 你发誓你会活的有笑容你自信时候真的美多了

And yea.. another day. I was told that i wasn't myself yesterday. What had really happened to me? I didn't want to know. Yesterday actually, i felt dizzy and cannot stand properly, had a slight feeling to faint but luckily i didn't. And yes, i was not fine.
Today, my 1st (past) love sent me an look-alike official message to bid me goodbye. In his message, i felt that he has only beginning to let go of our past. He starting to learn, think maturely. He definitely can do it! Because this is him :) Though not every story ends up with a beautiful conclusion, it marks a new stage of life... And i've always said: Life has to go on. I shall say this again. Every morning, we can choose to wake up with a grumpy face, complaining things like 'Oh, another boring day!' and grumble or we can choose to wake up and smile and tell ourselves that 'Another day, a new beginning, and be prepared to take on a new challenge today'. Which would you choose??.....
No matter what happens, friends are always forever by our sides. Genuine friends appear during time of crisis. Appreciate them, not making use of their kindness. As we grow older, we looked at things differently. And what caused these changes? No one can tell...

by Elvina on 12:19 AM

And yea.. another day. I was told that i wasn't myself yesterday. What had really happened to me? I didn't want to know. Yesterday a...